“Helping survivors of narcissistic abuse rebuild their confidence and design a life free from control.
You are not alone. Healing is possible.
Narcissistic abuse is a form of psychological manipulation that is often invisible to outsiders. While others may dismiss it, survivors know the devastating reality. It often begins with love bombing—intense affection and care—before shifting into coercive control, isolation, and constant criticism. You may be told "you're crazy" or "too sensitive," leaving you unable to trust your own intuition. This confusion is a hallmark of gaslighting. If you feel trapped and unable to detach despite the pain, you are likely suffering from a trauma bond. Recognizing these signs is the first step toward breaking the cycle and reclaiming your life.
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What Makes Life Free From Abuse Different
Healing from narcissistic and relational abuse requires more than generic advice—it demands specialized understanding, practical tools, and a compassionate approach that honors your unique journey. Our approach is built on three foundational pillars that work together to support your recovery and help you reclaim your sense of self.
Clarity & Education
Healing begins with understanding. We break down complex psychological concepts into clear, accessible language that empowers rather than overwhelms. Learn about gaslighting, trauma bonds, love bombing, triangulation, and cycles of abuse without jargon or confusion. You'll gain the vocabulary to name what happened to you, recognize patterns you couldn't see before, and understand why certain behaviors felt so confusing. This clarity isn't just academic—it's deeply validating and helps you trust your own perceptions again. Knowledge becomes your foundation for building a new, healthier narrative about yourself and your experiences.
Step-by-Step Tools
Understanding alone isn't enough—you need practical, actionable tools you can use right now. Our resources include specific boundary scripts you can adapt to your situation, guided reflection prompts that help you process your experiences safely, and gentle daily practices designed for real life, not perfection. These aren't abstract concepts but concrete strategies: what to say when someone crosses a line, how to identify your feelings when you've been trained to ignore them, and small rituals that rebuild your sense of safety. Each tool is trauma-informed, tested by survivors, and designed to meet you exactly where you are today—whether you're still in the situation, recently out, or years into your healing journey.
Compassionate Support
There is no shame here. You will never be judged for how you coped, how long you stayed, or how messy your healing looks. We understand that survival sometimes meant compromising your values, that leaving isn't always immediate or linear, and that healing happens in waves, not straight lines. Your pace is the right pace. Your feelings—all of them—are valid. We create a space where you can be honest about your struggles, your setbacks, and your fears without fear of being told you're "not trying hard enough" or "should be over it by now." Compassion isn't just our value—it's our practice, woven into every resource, every word, and every interaction.
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Break Free From Narcissistic Relationship Trauma and Start Rebuilding Yourself
If you’ve left (or are trying to leave) a relationship with a narcissist and you still feel confused, guilty, or like you’re somehow the problem, you are not alone — and you are not crazy.
Narcissistic abuse is designed to wear down your sense of reality, worth, and independence. Even after you leave, the effects can linger for months or years:
  • You replay conversations in your head wondering, “Was it really that bad?”
  • You miss them even though you know they hurt you.
  • You blame yourself for the relationship failing.
  • You feel anxious, numb, or unable to trust your own judgment.
I’ve been there. I survived narcissistic abuse and spent years untangling the confusion, shame, and self-doubt it left behind. Now, I help other survivors do the same.
1:1 Session – “Break the Trauma Bond”
In this 60‑minute private session, we focus entirely on you and your story.
This session is for you if:
  • You’ve left or are planning to leave a narcissistic partner.
  • You feel stuck in a trauma bond — missing them, checking on them, or feeling addicted.
  • You want someone who understands narcissistic abuse to help you sort through what happened.
  • You’re ready to start taking small, realistic steps towards healing.
What we’ll do together:
  1. Make sense of what you went through
    We’ll walk through key parts of your relationship and name the patterns of narcissistic abuse you experienced (gaslighting, love bombing, devaluation, etc.).
  1. Separate their lies from your truth
    We’ll gently identify the beliefs they planted (“You’re too sensitive,” “No one else will want you”) and begin replacing them with grounded truths.
  1. Create a 30‑day recovery outline
    By the end of the call, you’ll have 2–3 practical steps tailored to your situation — whether that’s going no contact, strengthening boundaries, or rebuilding support.
After the session, I’ll send you a short written summary of your 30‑day outline so you’re not relying on memory alone.
Important Note
I am not a therapist and this is not medical, legal, or psychiatric advice. This session is for peer support, education, and guidance from someone with lived experience and extensive knowledge of narcissistic abuse.
If you are in immediate danger, please contact local emergency services or a crisis hotline!
If you’re not sure if this is right for you, you can also send me an email with your situation, and I’ll let you know honestly if I think I can help.
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Programs & Support
Recovery isn't one-size-fits-all. Our programs are designed to meet you wherever you are in your healing journey—whether you're taking your first steps toward safety, building a supportive community, or deepening your self-compassion practice. Each offering provides structured guidance while honoring your unique pace and needs.
Trauma Recovery Program
This foundational program provides the essential building blocks for healing from narcissistic abuse. You'll learn how to recognize and regulate your nervous system responses, establish boundaries that actually work, and create safety in your daily life. The curriculum moves at your pace through modules on understanding trauma responses, identifying your needs, communicating boundaries clearly, and building a life that feels genuinely yours. Whether you're still processing what happened or ready to move forward, this program offers the structure and support you need. Includes lifetime access to video lessons, downloadable worksheets, and guided practices you can return to whenever you need them.
Survivor Support Network
Healing happens in connection—but finding safe people who truly understand can feel impossible. This membership community offers monthly live group calls where you can share your experiences, ask questions, and receive support from others who get it. You'll have access to a private forum for ongoing conversation, accountability partnerships to help you stay committed to your boundaries, and guest expert sessions on topics like legal advocacy, financial recovery, and co-parenting with a narcissist. This isn't therapy, but it is powerful: being witnessed, believed, and supported by people who've walked similar paths can be profoundly healing. Monthly or annual membership options available.
Mindful Recovery Method
When you've experienced manipulation and abuse, reconnecting with your body and your inner voice can feel impossible. This program guides you through gentle, trauma-sensitive practices that help you come home to yourself. Learn grounding techniques that actually work when you're triggered, self-compassion exercises that counteract the inner critic, and daily rituals that rebuild your sense of self-worth. Each practice is designed for people who've been told their feelings don't matter—we'll help you trust yourself again. Includes guided audio meditations, journal prompts, and video demonstrations. This program pairs beautifully with therapy or can stand alone as a self-guided healing resource.
Real Stories, Real Healing
You might wonder if healing is really possible. You might question whether you'll ever feel like yourself again, whether the confusion will ever clear, whether you'll stop doubting your own reality. These are the questions every survivor asks. And while everyone's journey is unique, there are common threads—moments of recognition, steps toward freedom, and the gradual return of peace.
"For years, I thought I was the problem. This program helped me see the patterns and finally trust myself again. The boundary scripts alone changed everything—I finally had words for what I needed without feeling guilty."
— Sarah M.
"I was drowning in shame and confusion. The educational content gave me clarity I desperately needed, and the community showed me I wasn't alone. Learning about trauma bonds explained so much about why leaving felt impossible. Now I'm six months free and building a life I actually want."
— Jennifer K.
"The mindfulness practices helped me manage the anxiety and self-doubt that came with breaking free. I actually feel like myself again—maybe for the first time ever. The grounding techniques get me through the hard days, and the self-compassion work is slowly healing years of internalized criticism."
— Maria T.
These survivors took their first steps toward healing, just like you're doing right now. Their journeys weren't perfect or linear—there were setbacks, doubts, and difficult moments. But they kept going, one small step at a time, and discovered that healing truly is possible. You deserve the same opportunity to reclaim your life, your peace, and your sense of self.
Insights & Strategies
Education is a powerful tool in your healing journey. These articles offer practical guidance, psychological insights, and validation for what you're experiencing. Each piece is written with care, breaking down complex topics into accessible, actionable information.
Understanding Trauma Bonds: Why Leaving Feels Impossible
Learn the neuroscience behind why you can't "just leave" and how to begin gently breaking these powerful attachments.
10 Boundary Scripts for Common Manipulation Tactics
Practical, word-for-word scripts you can use when facing gaslighting, guilt-tripping, and other manipulation strategies.
Rebuilding Self-Trust After Gaslighting
Step-by-step exercises to reconnect with your intuition and learn to trust your perceptions again.
You Deserve to Heal at Your Own Pace
There's no timeline for healing, no "right way" to recover, and no pressure to be anywhere other than exactly where you are. Every small step you take—learning a new term, setting a tiny boundary, simply acknowledging your pain—is meaningful progress.
You don't have to have it all figured out. You don't have to be "strong enough" or "ready enough." You just have to take the next small step. And that step can be as simple as downloading a free workbook and reading it when you feel safe.
Your healing matters. Your peace matters. You matter.
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